It is only showing myself and 3 kids as the members on the app
You will only be able to see your dependents under the age of 18 being the subscriber, unless delegation is assigned.
Here is how you can grant access: (your wife would do so via her own MyHumana account to grant you access to her personal health information)
How can I give someone in my family access to my information on MyHumana?
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